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A Marital Exercise - Ways A Husband May Express Love To His Wife (Part 1)

Here is a marriage exercise taken from a workbook titled "Building Marriages God's Way" designed by Faith Lafayette Church in Indiana. The Exercise: Evaluate the way you you express love to your wife. Circle the ways you are neglecting. Ask your wife to go over the list and put a check mark in front of the ways she would like you to express love. Ask her to add other things to the list. You may express love to your wife by: 1. Functioning as the loving leader of your home. 2. Frequently telling her you love her. 3. Giving her a regular amount of money to spend in any way she chooses. 4. Leading family devotions regularly. 5. Smiling and being cheerful when you come home from work. 6. Helping her wash and dry dishes. 7. Taking care of the children for at least three hours every week so that she has free time to do whatever she wants. 8. Taking her out for dinner or to do some fun thing at least once a week. 9. Doing the "fix-it" jobs she wants done...

A Marital Exercise - Practical Ways To Show Love To Your Husband (Part 1)

Here is a marriage exercise taken from a workbook titled "Building Marriages God's Way" designed by Faith Lafayette Church in Indiana. The Exercise: Evaluate the way you you express love to your husband. Circle the ways you are neglecting. Ask your husband to go over the list and put a check mark in front of the ways he would like you to express love. Ask him to add other things to the list. 1. Accept your husband as your leader and praise the leadership qualities he has. 2. Show interest and belief in his goals, ideals and achievements. 3. When your husband is talking, show attentiveness and belief by looking at him. 4. If you have excess weight -build hope for your husband by disciplining yourself. Set little goals and achieve them. Rom. 12:1-2; 1 Corinthians 3:16-17, 10:13. 5. Let your husband know that you need his protection in every area of your life: physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and volitionally. Ask him to help you learn to say "No...

Announcements - July 26, 2015

Announcements – July 26, 2015 Quarterly Strategy Meeting August 2: The next quarterly strategy meeting for GCF will be held on Sunday, August 2 following the worship service in the gymnasium. Members of GCF are expected to attend and everyone is welcome to join the meeting. Boy’s 2T and 3T onesies and clothes needed. There is a Safe Family for Children in Elk River who is caring for a medically fragile 9 month old boy. He is in need of onesies and some clothes. If you are able to donate these items, see Carmen Gunderson or call her at 763.370.2041 . Meeting At Elk River High School: GCF will be meeting in the Little Theatre at Elk River High School on August 9 and 16 for its Sunday morning worship services. Christian Movie Promotional: Contact Mary Prange about information regarding a Christian Movie titled “Beyond The Mask.” The movie will be playing at the Elk River theatre on Monday, August 17 and you must reserve tickets by August 7. Please consider su...

Five Myths Of Marriage Equality - Myth #1

Many are rejoicing in our day about the advances of same-sex marriage. The Supreme Court ruling by a margin of 5-4 now makes it illegal for any state to ban same-sex marriage. Depending on where you land on the spectrum of "tolerance" or rejection of same-sex marriage there are some myths to dis-spell regarding this issue. Before I get to the myths, it is crucial for me to point out that the Bible treats homosexuality as a voluntary act of rebellion against God (Romans 1:26-27). Scripture calls believers to respond to homosexual individuals with kindness, gentleness, and sympathy for their struggle (2 Timothy 2:24-26). However, there is nothing in Scripture that suggests homosexual behavior is natural or a part of God's design nor a part of human flourishing and fulfillment. Therefore, Scripture teaches that the correct response to homosexual inclinations is to repent and trust Jesus for forgiveness and strength (Luke 3:3).  Without further ado, here is the first...

Good Resources For Marriage, Men, Women, Singles, And Parenting Gender Roles

As I preach through 1 Peter and deal with Husbands and Wives in the context of marriage I was inspired to put together a list of resources that might be helpful for those who would like to follow up on these topics. I did my best to categorize the resource appropriately. I hope this is helpful.              Husbands The Exemplary Husband  By Stuart Scott (Husbands) The Complete Husband  by Lou Priolo (Husbands) Point Man  by Steve Farrar (Husbands) Ripped: My Wife Left Me…What Will I Do?  by Marshall Asher (Husbands) The Resolution For Men  By Kendrick/Alcorn (Husbands) Husbands, Wives And Marriage What Did You Expect? Redeeming The Realities Of Marriage  by Paul Tripp (Husbands/Wives) Renewing Marital Intimacy: Closing The Gap Between You And Your Spouse  by David Powlison (Husbands/Wives) What To Do When Your Marriage Goes Sour  by Jay Adams (Husba...

Announcements - July 19, 2015

Announcements – July 19, 2015 Thursday Morning Prayer Meeting:   Please join us for an hour of prayer on Thursday mornings from 6:00-7:00 a.m. at the church office. If you are unable to stop by the church office, feel free to join in wherever you are or send prayer requests to Pastor Kevin. Pastor Charlie’s Sabbatical Updates: Pastor Charlie has been updating his time away on his Sabbatical through his blog. You can feel free to follow along at http://bornoftheword.blogspot.com/ . Christian Movie Promotional: Contact Mary Prange about information regarding a Christian Movie titled “Beyond The Mask.” The movie will be playing at the Elk River theatre on Monday, August 17 and you must reserve tickets by August 7. Please consider supporting this movie with your family. There is more information available at the missions table and the GCF Facebook page. Student Ministries Summer Gathering: The next student ministries summer gathering (grades 6-12) is on F...

Announcements - July 12, 2015

Announcements – July 12, 2015 Thursday Morning Prayer Meeting:   Please join us for an hour of prayer on Thursday mornings from 6:00-7:00 a.m. at the church office. If you are unable to stop by the church office, feel free to join in wherever you are or send prayer requests to Pastor Kevin. Women’s Ministry/Ladies Park Day : We will be having another ladies and children park day on the 14th of July at Otsego Regional Park (by the Mississippi River) at 10:00 a.m.  Bring a lunch and enjoy some fun and fellowship. Student Ministries Summer Gathering: The next student ministries summer gathering (grades 6-12) is on Wednesday, July 15. Meet at the church office, 9:00 a.m. to head to Rochester for the Root River Canoe Trip. Bring a bag lunch, snacks, and $7 for gas and dinner. Pivot Meetings: The college age ministry meets on alternating Thursday evenings. 7:00 p.m. at Josiah Lee’s house. The next meeting is July 23. Stay Connected: All of our ...